The Questions
Every one of these starts with a question you are already asking. You just have not had anywhere to take it.
They all work the same way.
You pick the question that has been sitting on you. You fill out the questionnaire, and you answer honest, because soft answers make a soft report. I read every word myself. Then I send you back a personal report, written for you and not a template with your name dropped in it, that names what is actually going on, why it keeps happening, and the first real moves to make.
From there you either take it and run with it, or you take seven days with me built on exactly what your report found.
This is life and love coaching. It is not therapy, and I will tell you honestly if what you need is more than a coach.
WHY DO I KEEP ENDING UP HERE?
Same place, different year. Same kind of people, same arguments, same ceiling you keep hitting and cannot explain to anybody without sounding like you are making excuses. It is not bad luck and it is not them. It is a choice you keep making without noticing you are making it, and you cannot stop a thing you have never seen laid out in front of you.
This one is not about your relationship status. Single, married, divorced, somewhere in between, it does not change the work. It is about you as a whole person and the cycle you keep landing in. You answer the questions, and I send back the pattern you keep repeating, why it keeps happening, and where to start.
AM I THE WOW FACTOR THAT I DESIRE
You can list what you want in a partner without thinking twice. You have had that list for years. Here is the harder question. If somebody held you to your own list, would you pass it? Not most of it. All of it.
This one turns the mirror around. Not on the ex, not on the one who did you wrong, not on the one who will not act right. On you. And you are going to get a straight answer, because your report lands on one of two things and says it plainly. Either you are not there yet and here is exactly where the gap sits, or you already are it and you just never required anybody to meet you there. No hedging.
Married and committed people, this one is for you too. I am not telling you to leave. I am asking whether you are being what you keep asking your person to be.
TWO WAYS TO TAKE ANY OF THEM
Report Only. You fill out the questionnaire, I send your report, and that is the whole thing. You take it and run with it.
Seven Days With Me. You get your report first, same as everybody. Then the next morning I start writing to you. One email a day for seven days, from my personal address, and every one of them is built on what your report found, not a course everybody gets. Each one gives you something short to do and one question to sit with, and you can hit reply whenever it hits you, even if it is late and even if it is messy. I answer. About a week after the seventh one I come back and check on you, and that one has nothing in it but me asking how you are doing.
THE CHOICES CIRCLE
Done dummifying is a decision. Staying done is a room. You can join any time you want and you do not have to do a report first. Most people come to it after, once they have done the work and figured out they do not want to go back to normal by themselves.