I'm Done Sugar Coating It. Welcome To The Real Me.
EYE GOT SOMETHING TO SAY
Let me be honest with you before I ask you to be honest with yourself.
By LaTonya MeChelle
Being a victim is something that happened. Staying one is a choice we keep making.
For years I've said I was authentic. I've run the business. I've coached the clients. I've stood on the stages. And I meant every word. But if I'm keeping it all the way real, I've been sugar coating. Smoothing the edges. Saying it nice so nobody got uncomfortable.
That's dummifying. And I'm done.
So welcome. Welcome to LaTonya MeChelle, the new and improved. Some of y'all already know my other side, TygerEyez. Same woman. Claws out now. I'm not putting a number on this version. No 2.0, no 5.0. I'm just giving you the vibe. And the vibe is: no more mask.
We're about to talk about the things people don't want to talk about.
The stuff that comes up in my couple sessions over and over. The stuff people whisper about but won't say out loud at the cookout. I will never share what happens in a session. What's said in my room stays in my room. But the patterns? The things I see again and again? Those belong to all of us. And I'm done keeping them quiet.
Look around. Everybody's walking around with a mask on. Looking like the walking dead. Surviving, not living. Scared to be who the hell God created them to be.
Why?
Why are you afraid? Why did you hand somebody else the authority over your life? Why is your past still running the show? Why are you stuck?
I'm going to say it the way I had to say it to myself. Sometimes we stay stuck because stuck is familiar. Stuck doesn't ask anything of us. I know, because I lived there. Twelve years of telling everybody I got hit in the eye with a football. I wasn't stuck because I couldn't leave. I was stuck because I hadn't decided I was worth leaving for.
So hear me. Whatever you've been through, whatever you've been a victim of, that happened to you. It is not who you are. Being a victim is something that happened. Staying one is a choice we keep making, and you are allowed to stop making it today.
Stop giving people victory over your life. Stop giving your past the final word. You are no longer that person.
And forget the rules. I don't give a dang who made them in the first place. Half the people who wrote the rules for your life didn't even like their own.
This is what everything I do is built on.
The CHOICES Lifestyle. Constantly Having Opportunities to Increase, Change and Empower Self. Every single day you get a choice. The smart ones take the opportunity.
The WOW FACTOR Mindset. Loving yourself on your best day and your worst day. Putting in the work. Walking in your WOW without asking anybody's permission.
And DONE DUMMIFYING. Catching yourself making yourself smaller so everybody else stays comfortable, and doing something about it.
That's what this site is about. That's what my clients walk away with. That's what I bring to every room I speak in. And from here on out, that's what you're getting from me. Raw. Up close. Personal.
So here's my question for you, and I want you to sit with it: what would you do tomorrow if you stopped asking permission to be yourself?
Tell me in the comments. Or start with my free test and find out what's really going on with you on the inside. latonyamechelle.com
Welcome to the real me. Come on in.
Eye Am LaTonya MeChelle.
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