Honeybuns!!!!!!
Alright, all you single folks out there who keep singing the same old tune – "There are no good men/women left!" – it's time for a reality check. Before you go pointing fingers at the dating pool and lamenting your string of bad experiences, have you ever stopped to wonder: who's the common denominator in all those failed relationships?
If you're such a catch, why do you keep striking out in the love department? Have you ever taken a long, hard look at how you show up in relationships, how you date, and how you interact with potential partners? Do you truly know what you bring to the table, or are you just assuming the worst about everyone else?
I remember a wise friend once asked me, "How do you know if someone is truly into you when you're the one doing all the heavy lifting – planning dates, footing the bill, and bending over backwards to make things work?" It made me pause and reflect: are they interested in me, or just what I can give them?
This applies to both men and women. Before you start painting the dating scene with broad strokes of negativity, take a step back and ask yourself: what role am I playing in attracting the wrong kind of partners? Are you controlling situations, creating drama out of thin air, and then crying foul when things inevitably fall apart?
It's time to do the inner work, folks. It's time to evaluate your own behavior, set healthy boundaries, and stop ignoring the red flags – both from potential partners and from yourself. How can you expect to find a good mate if you're not actively working on being a good partner yourself?
Let's have a real conversation about self-improvement, self-awareness, and self-love. It's time to stop playing the victim and start taking ownership of your actions, your choices, and your role in finding love. Most don't need a matchmaker, they need a selfmaker! Fix self and the right one will appear, ready to give you the world.
So, let's talk about it. Let's dig deep, peel back the layers of self-deception, and uncover the truth about what's holding you back from the healthy, fulfilling relationship you deserve. The power to change starts with you – are you ready to step up to the plate? As always, you don't have to talk to me but please, talk to someone!!!
With tough love and unwavering honesty,
LaTonya MeChelle
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