Hey Lovers (or should I say, roommates in denial),
It's time to address the elephant in the room – the deafening silence that's drowning out the love in your relationship. How in the world are you two sharing a roof, sharing a bed, and sharing a life without even sharing a decent conversation? #nocommunication
I hear it all the time: "We're staying together for the children." Really? Do you honestly think your children are blind to the dysfunction simmering beneath the surface of your home? Newsflash: they see it, they feel it, and they might just be inheriting your dysfunctional relationship playbook for their future.
Let's cut the BS, shall we? You chose to be with this person, so why the heck can't you even muster up a civil conversation with them now? Are you so financially invested that you'd rather drown in misery than swim towards happiness?
If you're going to coexist under the same roof, for the love of sanity, learn to be friends, learn to communicate, and learn to respect each other like decent human beings. I refuse to believe that anyone deserves to live in a house where silence is the loudest sound.
I've seen it all – couples who come to me with a relationship as lifeless as a deflated balloon, pointing fingers and playing the blame game. Enough with the madness, people! It's time to strip away the emotions, get down to the nitty-gritty logistics, and take ownership of your actions.
Stop hiding behind excuses like "it's for the kids" or "it's for the money." Nobody signs up for a lifetime of misery. It's time to lay it all out on the table, own up to your shortcomings, and work towards a relationship filled with peace, respect, and genuine connection.
Let's have a real conversation, a raw conversation, about the state of your relationship. It's time to stop tiptoeing around the issues and start facing them head-on. The sooner you both take responsibility, communicate honestly, and work towards a common goal, the closer you'll be to rediscovering the love and connection that brought you together in the first place. Or pack your bags and stop destroying your children's minds and saying, 'it's cheaper to stay!"
So, let's talk about it. No more excuses, no more silence. It's time to break the cycle of dysfunction and pave the way towards a healthier, happier relationship – for yourselves and for your children's future. You don't have to talk to me, but dangit, get help from someone! Life is way too short and yall ain't fooling no one but yourselves!!!!!
With tough love and zero tolerance for silence,
LaTonya MeChelle
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