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  • Writer's pictureLaTonya MeChelle

Age Ain't Nothing but a Number: My Adventures in Dating Younger Men

Updated: Oct 26, 2023

CLARIFICATION: My Adventures In Dating Younger Men (Who Actually Have Their Shit Together)


Greetings, #Honeybuns! Today, we're going to dive into the intriguing world of age preferences in dating. Strap yourselves in, folks, because we're about to tackle a topic that some may find scandalous. That's right, ladies and gentlemen, I'm about to spill the beans on my not-so-secret fetish for younger men. Hold onto your hats!


Now, before you start picturing me as some cougar prowling the streets for fresh meat, let's get one thing straight. It's not just any younger guy that tickles my fancy; it's the ones who have their act together. We're talking about the fine specimens who are focused, ambitious, and rocking their own lives. These are the young bucks who aren't looking for a sugar momma to fund their lazy lifestyles. Oh no, they want a challenge, a woman who can match their hustle and together they can conquer the world!


Let's be honest here, #Honeybuns. Men in my age bracket seem to have a few issues. Either they are set in their ways like a stubborn mule or they're still nursing a decade-old heartbreak that has turned them into mistrustful creatures. I mean, come on! I'm not a mind reader, and I refuse to be held accountable for the actions of some woman who did them wrong back when we had to deal with flip phones. Sorry, gentlemen, but I don't have time for that baggage. It's something about wanting to know my every move, even when I go to the bathroom and doing the same damn routine time after time that bores the mess out of me.


So, why do I find myself gravitating toward these fresh-faced gentlemen? Well, for starters, they bring a refreshing energy to the table. They're not weighed down by decades of disappointments and grudges. They're eager, open-minded, and ready to take on the world. And let me tell you, there's something undeniably attractive about a man who is focused on building his own empire while still finding time to sweep me off my feet.

Now, let's clarify one thing – I'm not talking about the youngins who are still crashing on their buddy's couch or playing video games in their mommy's basement. No, no, no. We're talking about the ones who have their own place, a steady job, and a genuine drive to succeed. These are the young guns who won't bat an eye when you suggest spending the night at their place.


Sure, some may argue that there's an inherent power dynamic at play here, but let me tell you something. I'm not looking to be anyone's mother figure or sugar momma. I want an l partnership where both parties bring their A-game to the table. It's about mutual growth, support, and prosperity.


Soooooooo! Let's break free from societal expectations and embrace the fact that age is just a number (In some cases. Let me clear this up real quick before my phone starts ringing talking about, you said I was too young, haha! And I did and meant it!!!). Umm, even I have a cutoff age, lol. If a younger man with his shit together comes along and sets your heart aflutter, why not give it a shot? Love knows no boundaries, and who are we to deny ourselves the chance at happiness?


Let's ditch the stereotypes and embrace the idea that love can be found in unexpected places. Whether it's with a younger man who's got his act together or a silver fox who knows how to sweep you off your feet, the key is to find someone who challenges you, supports you, and makes you feel alive.


Until Next Time!!!

Peace, Love & Kisses,

LaTonya MeChelle

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